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When hubby and I first got married, we were fresh-out-of-college and very broke. We looked for cheap ways to entertain ourselves, which could explain why our extremely expensive daughter was born, um, 10 months later. We’d play frisbee at the park, read Oscar Wilde plays aloud (I made an excellent Cecily Cardew), and we would do Mad Libs.

Mad Libs were the craze when I was a kid. My friends and I would spend hours attempting to make funny stories. It was rare, but sometimes we would come up with something hilarious. The same held true when hubby and I played. Recently, I came across one of our old Mad Lib books and it took me back to the days when we had time to sit around thinking of the most clever adjective or least pedestrian plural noun.

I noticed the adjectives we chose then were vastly different than adjectives we would chose now, if we decided to take up our old hobby again. We used words like “exquisite”, “serene”, “blithe”, “skinny”, “fluffy”, and “shiny”. Now they would be “moist”, “pudgy”, “turbulent”, “disheveled”, “persnickety”, “mischievous”, and “blessed”.

And the stories would be better.

Life sentences

Curt at The Happy Husband recently posted an interesting, easy, and amusing exercise he and his wife explored called “Completing each other’s sentences”.

The idea is for each spouse to write the first five words of five sentences. Then each completes the other’s sentences. Since couples often have the ability to complete each others thoughts and words (with sometimes iffy accuracy), it is a fun way to expound of this sometimes annoying, sometimes endearing habit. Hubby and I tried our own last night and here are our results:

My sentences, completed by hubby:

1. A picture is worth a…ton of hard drive space.

2. The scent of pine needles…reminds me of pine cone wars.

3. Birds sing the loudest when…you’re trying to sleep.

4. “L” is for the way…you’re looking at me right now.

5. Ernie and Bert secretly share…Bush’s Baked Beans for brunch.

Hubby’s sentences, completed by me:

1. Carry on my wayward son…the trunk won’t fit in the overhead bin.

2. It’s about time we started…forgetting time.

3. They’re 20/20 and they’re blue…and there’s 10 staring back at you.

4. Yours for only a small…oceanliner full of platinum.

5. Sometimes you feel like a…feather in a hurricane.

It was really fun to do. It was fun anticipating what hubby’s complete sentences would be and I found I was completely off. I laughed so hard I nearly cried at his Ernie and Bert answer. Maybe he caught me at a weak moment…?

Doing this little exercise reinforced the fact I am married to an original, creative, and playful guy. Although I may think I know him (in fact I often say I knew you were going to say that), I am still learning about him.

My plan

I asked how I was to mourn and hope at the same time. Late last night, I remembered infamous Ecclesiastes…

3:1 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:

3:2 A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;

3:3 A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;

3:4 A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;

3:5 A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;

3:6 A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;

3:7 A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;

3:8 A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.

There is a time to mourn. There is a time to dance. There is nothing about a time of dancing and mourning at once. So for now I am not going to mourn, I am going to dance for my little one who is still inside, alive. I am not going to be break-dancing, doing the Macarena, or even the Charleston. I will be slow dancing with hubby, shuffling my feet from side-to-side. Maybe we will twirl a little, he’ll dip me, but we won’t let go of each other’s hands.

It doesn’t mean I’ve forgotten, or want to forget. But what better way to honor my lost baby than to cheer on his or her brother or sister with everything in me?

I am not going to write any more about the pregnancy until Thursday.