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Extemporaneous Archie

I was facing a bit of writer’s block, so I asked Archie what I should write about for Mile High Mamas.

I ran with the first idea out of his mouth.

It’s a bit like competitive extemporaneous speaking, which I did in high school. He gave a topic to me. The only downside is that I didn’t have a stack of ancient Time and Newsweek magazines to assist me in formulating my viewpoint. Those magazines, coupled with the fact I was 17 and knew everything there was to know, means I wish I had transcripts of those speeches. Cringe!

Go say hello over there, pretty please with cheese crumbles on top?

“Red is red. Blue is blue,” said Hush.

I was changing into my pajamas when I heard a soft knock on my bedroom door.

“Mom?”

It was Aidan.

“What do you need?”

She said she had a question. I told her to come in. It was past her usual bedtime and she seemed shy and hesitant as she lingered in the doorway. Her demeanor set me on edge almost immediately. I was confident her question was going to be meatier than I had the fortitude to chew after a typically long, busy day.

I climbed into bed, propping myself up on pillows. If my mind couldn’t be comfortable, my body would.

“Well, I was just wondering…what is your favorite Little Golden Book?”

I laughed the laugh of a person who felt relief tickle her under the arms and the chinny-chin-chin.

I didn’t have to ponder the answer or go through my mental catalogue of my favorites. Two gems popped to mind: The Monster at the End of this Book and The Color Kittens.

It was then I noticed she was holding a book behind her back. She smiled broadly and held it up. It was The Color Kittens.

“Me, too!”

She bounded to the bed and landed next to me, pulling a pillow behind her back. I took the book and opened it to the title page.

And that’s how I read a bedtime story to my teenaged daughter.

A place to walk

We are blessed to live in a place where walking is easy.

The streets are bordered by sidewalks in good condition. Traffic is minimal, confined to neighbors coming and going. On weekdays, it’s especially slow-paced.

We have a greenbelt path bordering our backyard. I can look out our kitchen window and see people and their dogs traveling east or west. Sometimes, there are kids on bikes or skateboards.

At the end of our street, there is a park with a large expanse of thick, short grass. On one end, there is a half circle wall, low enough to sit on. There is a metal fire pit and 3 tall totem poles. A small lake stocked with fish, dotted with ducks and geese, lies just beyond.

The sidewalk ends and a dirt trail begins. It veers into cattails and brush, through low branches and throrny bushes. The kids like to take these paths because they are off-road and mysterious. In the spring, many of the plants and trees on the lakeside pop into pink and white blossoms.

I am looking forward to the wild blossoms in a couple of months. Thankfully, there have been a few unseasonably warm days to take advantage of a place to walk.

Most of our walks lately have been just the little ones and me. It seems almost shameful to not walk on the paths we have been given. I am prone to taking this luxury of accessibility for granted.

It is important to me for the kids to grow up having regular meetings with ducks and sticks and dirt and fellow travellers on the paths. Paved or dirt-pebbly, I want to make a point of pausing as often as needed. Rushing may raise my heart rate and make it more of an exercise experience, but now is a time in my life where lagging is okay.

Walk ten feet. Stop. Look. Walk ten feet. Stop. Listen.

If I forced them to keep up with me, they’d always wonder if the goose pecked through the ice or if that stick was actually a dinosaur bone. They’d never be sure if the rushing water of melting snow makes a sound as it plummets into the rusty corner grate and down down down. Splash!

Are the berries good to eat? Never.

But why are they so beautiful?

They remind me of jarred fish eggs.

Is this a good stick to smack the snow? What do you think?

This is our preschool.

This is our classroom.

This is our world.

In less than 6 months, Beatrix will enter kindergarten and she will be gone all day. Most of her hours will be spent inside.

I am so glad I’ve been able to introduce her feet and hands to texture, temperature, ups, and downs. I watch her run and leap and scamper and I am going to miss her so, so much.